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Saturday, August 27, 2016

An Apple a Day - Helping your child learn through field trips

Homeschool Field Trips – Helping your child learn hands-on:

               We use every situation as a learning situation or field trip. When my husband goes on out-of-state fishing trips, he takes our son with him and turns it into a learning experience. He has my son write down all the wildlife he sees, the geography of their travels, the states through which they pass, the license plates of other vehicles – to see how many other states they can find, places and cities of interest, and they even check out library books about the flora and fauna of the destination area. They also talk about the types of fish they catch.


               Each state has a website of interesting things to do, which can be used as hands-on educational experiences. There are cultural events, nature reserves, amusement parks, museums, libraries, symphonies, community playhouses, national parks, recreational facilities, etc. Wise parents will make use of these resources for interesting field trips, while getting to know their own state better.

               In each one of my volumes of It's Not Rocket Surgery! by Shannah B Godfrey on Amazon.com, I put ideas for things to do in Missouri at the end of each subject. There are similar types of activities for each state. Check them out! 

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Saturday, August 20, 2016

An Apple a Day - The flexibility of homeschool


               I love homeschooling for its flexibility! My youngest son has bipolar sleep issues. His circadian sleep cycle changes with his bipolar mood cycles. It is almost impossible for him to wake up early. Public school mornings were a nightmare for him. Now with homeschooling, we have the flexibility to have school any time of the day or night.

               My son sleeps in as long as he needs, then does his school work with his father. One of his classes he does at bedtime, because that’s when he prefers to read the lesson – in bed. Homeschooling has helped him thrive. The flexibility has eliminated the early morning battles. A sleep-deprived person is less reasonable and less able of self-control. Our family life is much more pleasant now.

               Be flexible. Homeschool does not need to be done on the same schedule as public or private school. As my quotes from Hartman Rector, Jr., show, it also does not need to be 6 hours a day, every day. For best practices, find the rhythm that works for you. Then stick with it.

“There’s no question in my mind that about 14 minutes with mother is equal to all day in the public school. That’s what they determined when William Bennett was director of the Department of Education under President Reagan. He tried to determine how much time it would take with private tutoring for a child who had been injured and couldn’t attend school. All it takes is 1 ½ hours a week to keep a child up with his class. That’s about 20 minutes per day!

“[Mother burn-out] happens because they try to put on a public school in their home. They even use public school materials. That doesn’t work. You’ve got to adapt to what will work. I’m convinced that Glenn Kimber’s gone a long way down the road to getting past this burnout problem. He suggests teaching three days a week, four hours a day, and no homework. Homework was devised by Dewey to make kids hate school. He didn’t want students to love learning.

“Don’t teach on Monday. You need Monday to get over Sunday. That’s when you do your housework, learn about Tide in, dirt out and if you put yeast in, bread rises. Then when you go on [your own] you’re not helpless… and the kids who came out knowing how to cook and mend were better qualified to survive well [as adults].

“The afternoon is open for students to play in the band or sports with local high school, if they want to. Friday is field day; you’ve got to know how the fire department and the police department work. I’m convinced this is a great system.” ~ Hartman Rector, Jr.


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Sunday, August 14, 2016

An Apple a Day - How to get your children to read more

One more idea for motivating your children to read more: TV Bucks

One thing my father did with my siblings and me, that I have used with my children, is TV Bucks. To encourage us to read more and watch TV less, my father insisted that we read an hour for each hour of TV watched. We had to do the reading first – we could not go into “debt” nor make up the reading later. No reading, no TV.

               My father kept track of our reading hours in a notebook. I expanded on his idea by creating TV Bucks, which are the shape and size of Monopoly money, have the letters “TV” on the front center, and are laminated. Whenever my children read for an hour, they get a TV Buck. They can spend them on TV shows. TV Bucks have greatly increased reading time and decreased TV time. They are a great visual to keep track of reading time.

It's not rocket surgery! - but much more important than that. You, mom and dad, are the key.


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Saturday, July 23, 2016

An Apple a Day - One way to negotiate with your child

Poker Chips – 

               One of the tools I use for negotiation is plastic, red poker chips. One of my sons has defiance disorder (but this works for all children). He has very little self-control over his anger and will say and do inappropriate things when his expectations are not met in his way. Poker chips have helped him curb his outbursts and control his reactions.

               We have a jar that starts off empty each day. He gets 2 poker chips put in his jar just for waking up each day. He is a person of value, regardless of his behavior, so he starts fresh with 2 chips. Throughout the day, he can earn a chip for each of his school subjects that he completes. He has 5 core subjects, so he can earn 5 more chips for 7 total.

He uses these chips to pay for privileges, which cost 2 chips each, such as playing an hour of video games, watching an hour of TV, playing on the computer for an hour, or using the cell phone for an hour. He can only “afford” 3 of the activities, so he has to choose his priorities.

Yes, there is a chip left over. It is insurance because if he swears at mom or dad in a fit of rage, he loses a chip. If he refuses to do his work or screams at us, he loses a chip. If he loses too many chips, he can no longer afford as many privileges. We try to pick our battles and not have a power struggle over every argument. We try to give him the benefit of the doubt, not take away all his chips (it would be easy to do, some days), and not back him into a corner, emotionally.

But we have noticed that with this motivation – to have to earn his privileges – he has more self-control and can calm himself down and respond better. Negotiation with poker chips helps him overcome his rage and feel better about himself. He also appreciates his blessings more if he has to earn them.

And it helps him understand the Law of the Harvest, that we reap what we sow. It helps us battle his feelings of entitlement, that he should always get his way no matter what. Control issues and entitlement are a common problem for bipolar children, children of rage (defiance disorder), and some Aspergers/autistic children.

The poker chips help us remove our own frustration and anger from the equation, too. Our son can see, by the chips in his jar, what he has earned. We can keep our emotions out of it. It is a visual point system that works for us.

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Saturday, July 9, 2016

An Apple a Day - Using negotiation to motivate children

How do we motivate defiant children without nagging, yelling, and screaming? Last time we discussed using a kitchen timer as a challenge. Here is another idea:

Negotiate – 

Sometimes I motivate my children with negotiation. They need to earn their privileges, not just be handed everything. Children’s chores and studying need to be done before using electronics, TV, or playing. They need to be respectful to us parents, too. They need to learn gratitude for the treats, privileges, and activities they receive, too.

               There are certain chores that my children do just because they are part of the family and need to contribute to its success, to keep it functioning properly, and to appreciate their bed and food and care. For us, these include cleaning their rooms, doing dishes, cleaning the bathrooms, vacuuming, helping with laundry, etc.

               There are other chores that my children can do to earn money, to learn the value of work. For us, these include mowing the grass, washing windows, Spring cleaning chores, shoveling the snow, etc.

               I have a son who will only cooperate at times if he gets something extra from it. So I negotiate for extra TV or game time if he finishes writing his essay in a timely manner. He wants to be paid a privilege for every little requirement, but I tell him that some things are not negotiable, that he needs to do them just because, and shouldn’t need to be paid. We compromise on some things and not on others. If he is being especially defiant, I might give him an extra incentive to go do simple things.

               People say that we shouldn’t bribe children to do what’s right. Well, negotiation is not a bribe. A bribe is paying someone to do something illegal or immoral. However, we all respond to a reward system. Getting a paycheck is a reward for going to work. Rewarding children is not a bribe.


However, negotiation is not meant to spoil a child, give him or her something harmful – like a lot of candy – just because of a tantrum, or anything and everything s/he wants. That is not what a reward system or negotiation is for. In fact, if my child throws a tantrum, he or she definitely does NOT get his or her way. Sometimes a parent just has to say, “NO!” and stick to it. Be wise. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Choose your battles wisely, but don't always concede.  Be consistent, whatever you do.


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Saturday, July 2, 2016

An Apple a Day - How a kitchen timer can improve family life

Best practices for the pursuit of excellence - ideas for the kitchen timer in family motivation:

If you or your child is having a hard time getting motivated to do school work or chores, set the kitchen timer for 15 minutes and have a challenge to see how much you can accomplish before the timer bell dings. 

It’s great fun to beat the timer and work as fast as possible for a sprint of effort. Now that you’re into the activity, you can continue if you want, or take a short break then reset the timer and try again.

I also like to use a portable kitchen timer (you know the white ones with the dial that turns in a circle, or whatever timer you want) to have “five-minute time” with my children at bedtime. 

Each child has a different night of the week that is just his or hers. 

I sit on my child’s bed and give him or her my undivided attention for 5 full minutes. 

My child can say anything s/he wants with no repercussions. 

I try to keep quiet and let the child lead the conversation.

It’s amazing what 5 minutes of special time does for our parent-child bond, as well as my child’s self-esteem! 

If the conversation is going well, we can go past the 5 minutes, if desired. 

This is a life-saver for a family, making sure each child gets special attention. 

Even as an exhausted mother, I could muster up 5 minutes a night to create a special moment one-on-one.

It really works!

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Saturday, June 25, 2016

An Apple a Day - How to raise secure and intelligent children

How to raise secure and intelligent children - Putting baby first

Studies by Jean Piaget and Erik Erikson have shown that the early developmental stages of children are crucial to how the brain is wired, and that the environment provided by parents and caregivers affects their sense of security, how they view the world, and their intellectual development.

               As a biological parent, foster parent, and adoptive parent, I have seen first-hand how true this is. The very first building block to a healthy child, intellectually, socially, and emotionally is for baby to feel that his or her needs are being met. 

This is why the currently popular doctrine of “self-soothing” is so damaging and wrong. I have found that children who are held often are much more secure and independent as they get older than children who are not. You cannot spoil a child with too much holding. That is nonsense. Nothing seems to make up for damage done in the first two years.

               Even as a working mother, my main priority when I got home was to nurse and hold my babies. The house could wait. All other activities could wait. Even though I had excellent childcare from a provider who parented similar to me, my main goal was to make sure my babies felt loved and secure. Next came helping the older children with homework and attending their activities, but taking the babies with me wherever possible.

               It is also wrong to make a hungry baby wait to be fed. The doctrine of forcing a child to wait four hours to be fed is wrong. It creates children who do not trust and may later self-soothe with food. What about overweight babies, you ask? This is much more a risk with bottle-fed babies than breast-fed babies. A nursing baby should eat every 1.5 to 2 hours, as desired. A chubby, breast-fed baby is healthy with brown fat, which goes away as the child learns to walk and run around.

               I am not talking about over-feeding a baby, just common sense. Use some wisdom. I also do not agree with putting baby to bed with a bottle. Never do that. But a forced schedule, where baby feels hungry a lot, is pure evil. Hunger is a real pain to a child. Abuse and neglect rewire a child’s brain.

               Even a bottle-fed baby should be held while being fed. This is key to a child’s emotional development and self-esteem. Do not prop the bottle up and walk away. No one was busier than me with a large family, so no excuses. Take the time. Make the time.


As far as bottle-fed babies getting too fat, use a pacifier between feedings to appease a baby’s natural need to suck. Pacifiers are easier to throw away later (about 2 years) than a thumb. Formula digests slower than breast-milk, so maybe put 3 hours between feedings, but never 4 hours. If the child is truly hungry, feed him or her on demand. Be wise. There is a balance between meeting the child’s needs and over-feeding. If the baby’s emotional needs are being met, he or she will have less need for comfort from a bottle when not truly hungry.


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Saturday, June 18, 2016

An Apple a Day - How to teach children to think

Do you know how to enhance your child's mind? Give your child a mental apple a day? (Some of this info is found in Vol. 6 of my It's Not Rocket Surgery!)

Read on to learn more about:

  • The best practice for learning is adult-led, direct instruction with an inquiry-based approach. 
  • Parents should start their children’s learning at home, long before school age. 
  • For their child’s continued development, they need to advocate for these best practices, especially for math and reading, at public, private, or home school. 
  • I’d also like to add that if they use a preschool, parents should choose one that believes in adult-led education, not self-discovery. 
  • The less time in preschool, and the more time with mom or dad, the better – for learning, for development, for bonding, for emotional and mental health.


To maximize your child’s window of learning, she or he needs adult-led direct instruction. Unfortunately, as is commonly the case, teachers (and parents) leave good students to fend for themselves on the mistaken assumption that they don’t need help. Mom and Dad can and should do things at home to enhance their child’s learning and intelligence. Start with early reading the right way.

What is the difference between student-led and adult-led education? In its truest form, student-led learning is where students only learn what they want to learn, wherever their curiosity takes them, if anywhere. Groups of students theoretically lead each other into the discovery of all knowledge at their own pace. Teacher-led learning is where the teacher uses a structured lesson plan to present knowledge in a specific sequence. You, as parents, are your child’s first teacher and best advocate.

There are problems with both sides, but clearly the unguided student-led learning leads to failure. Whole Language learning is a prime example of this. (Student-led math instruction is also a fiasco. Such faulty ideas are rampant in Common Core philosophy.)

One teacher, Pavel Ryzlovsky, of Canada, wrote to me: “With the whole population's silent participation, we have already accumulated several obstacles to good-quality language teaching. The other one that needs to be tackled is our adherence to student-oriented learning.

“I remember reading of a study, unprecedented in its scope, which was conveyed to determine what sort of language-teaching system has been the most effective one. It found that teacher-oriented education has been consistently bringing the best results, in few aspects several times better than the student-oriented type.

“The outcome of the study was disseminated among the teaching districts throughout USA; however, only one tenth of their total number embraced the teacher-oriented system; in other districts both parents and teachers refused it as "too demanding" (for children and teachers).

“The sooner we recognize what's wrong at the roots of our approaches the better. We have a long way to go to get out of the trouble we put ourselves into.” ~ Pavel Ryzlovsky, Canada

It is true that when we ask questions we remember better than when we are just spoon fed facts. But waiting for children to be curious about every aspect of knowledge is not enough in the classroom. Children were not born knowing everything. They don’t know what they don’t know. If one wanted to learn to be a doctor, wouldn’t she want to go to the experts? Having to re-invent the wheel, or self-discover all medical knowledge, is not the best way to learn.

Leaving a child to his own discovery will not bring progress quickly. If children were able to learn all knowledge by self-discovery, there would be no reason to have colleges or degree programs. Someone has to cache all the centuries of learned knowledge for others to use, which falls to our universities, libraries and schools. If teacher-oriented learning wasn’t necessary, all the farmers in the last century would have become geniuses just by thinking while on their tractors or in their fields.

“To promote scientific literacy, one focus of science education is scientific discovery learning. However, its effectiveness is dubious, because students face some difficulties in dealing with the discovery processes, especially coordinating hypotheses with evidence. Students do not attempt to associate their hypotheses with the evidence. And even if they do, they are so strongly biased that they retain their current hypotheses and ignore or distort the evidence.” (Hiroko Kobayashi, The University of Tokyo, Tokyo, Japan. The effects of "collaborative discovery learning with an association scheme" on the acquisition of scientific literacy.)

The above statement shows one reason why teacher-oriented learning is best – the immaturity of students. But teachers have to make learning interesting. As one social studies teacher put it:

“The content has to be first. So in a sense it has to be very teacher oriented, teacher centered. I am giving them information and I am expecting [them] to process it and do something with it. I give homework assignments.”

The best teacher-oriented education uses an inquiry-based approach, much like Socrates used. In this way, the questions are guided by an adult but help the children think and learn. Often, a question is answered with another question. This opens a child’s curiosity and leads the student to the knowledge. This may require longer class discussions, but is worth it. Cultures that use this kind of guided-question, teacher-oriented discovery produce more Nobel Prize nominees and winners than those that don’t.

There is one place where student-oriented learning does well, and that is when discovery is enhanced with computers. The computer asks the leading questions, so the student isn’t completely on his own, but feels like he is in control. Student discovery by computer works well with some [older] children, but they still need the human touch on occasion. Too much computer time has proven to be detrimental to emotional and social maturity. (McGlinn, M. (2007). Using the "Documenting the American South" Digital Library in the social studies: A case study of the experiences of teachers in the field. Contemporary Issues in Technology and Teacher Education [Online serial], 7(1). http://www.citejournal.org/vol7/iss1/socialstudies/article1.cfm)

There you have it. 
The best practice for learning is adult-led, direct instruction with an inquiry-based approach. 
Parents should start their children’s learning at home, long before school age. 
For their child’s continued development, they need to advocate for these best practices, especially for math and reading, at public, private, or home school. 
I’d also like to add that if they use a preschool, parents should choose one that believes in adult-led education, not self-discovery. 
The less time in preschool, and the more time with mom or dad, the better – for learning, for development, for bonding, for emotional and mental health.

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Saturday, June 11, 2016

An Apple a Day - Best practices for the pursuit of excellence in parenting

Best practices for the pursuit of excellence in parenting - tips from a mom of 15

“No other success can compensate for failure in the home.” ~ David O. McKay

               What? Not even rocket science or brain surgery? No, not for the children of the rocket scientist or brain surgeon, and not for any child. From whom do children, especially young children, learn best? Nature has shown us time and again that children usually learn best from their own parents. Many parents of gifted children have intrinsically understood this truth, which may be part of the reason their children advance ahead.

               Glynne Sutcliffe (M.A., Dip. Ed.) says, “Remember Suzuki and his violin lessons! Parents are the natural first teachers of young children. Children learn almost everything of significance by watching and absorbing what their parents (or parent substitutes) do, feel and think… Young children need a lot of one-to-one time with loving adults willing to open up the world to them. If they are in child care, they need that balancing every day one-on-one time with a parent even more.”

               Helping parents become their child’s first teacher is paramount to turning around the fiasco of the public education system and the key to raise thriving children. Glynne’s research can be found at http://www.earlyreadingplayschool.com.au/ 

               Public education’s answer to teaching children has been to remove them from their mothers earlier and earlier in order to give them a ‘head start’ in school. Unfortunately, it hasn’t worked well. Of course, there are situations where abusive, neglectful, or ignorant parents are not preparing their child’s mind for learning, but these are the exceptions. Universal preschool for all is not the answer.

               Rather than merely placing children in preschool, parents must be directly involved in their child’s early education, especially for reading and math. And young children have the extra need of bonding and attachment time with parents, which enhances their learning ability further. Even working mothers like me can find time to help their children’s minds.

The art of continuous improvement is the road to excellence, line upon line, precept on precept, here a little, there a little. In fact, manufacturers are constantly looking for the best practices and improvements to their processes. Can the idea of “best practices” work at home? Certainly! However, continuous improvement does not mean throwing out tried-and-true best practices for new theories. Some new, untried ideas sound good on paper, but do not work in practice.

For example, phonics is the best reading method. Alternate methods that seemed brilliant on paper did more damage than good and greatly increased dyslexia. Another example is writing by cursive penmanship. Public schools have mostly done away with cursive, but maybe the newer methods aren’t always better. Maybe the old ways of learning have more value than meets the eye. The website, Mom.Think.org, posted this finding:

“Scientists are discovering that learning cursive is an important tool for cognitive development, particularly in training the brain to learn ‘functional specialization’ that is capacity for optimal efficiency.”


Whatever the factors, it is clear that parents must not let their children be left to themselves in school, whether that be public, private, or home school. Parents can follow the best practices with their children at home to ensure a great foundation for success. Remember the old saying, “An apple a day keeps the doctor away.” Enhancing your children’s minds at home is like giving them a mental apple a day. Let’s discover what some of those best practices are. First, the why, then the what and how. See you next time...

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Saturday, March 26, 2016

Sing a Song of Sixpence - Just say NO to Reform Math and Common Core

Is your child’s math homework making you worried? It should.

Missouri parent tells of "insanity" in reform classroom:

Note from Laurie Rogers: “Reform math, excessive constructivism, and persistent administrative arrogance and interference are not exclusive to Washington State. Together, they have sunk this great country into a mathematical Dark Ages, severely limiting the futures of millions of children and devastating our supply of STEM professionals. (STEM stands for Science, Technology, Engineering, Mathematics.)

“Every week, I [Laurie] receive emails from perplexed, frustrated and angry parents, teachers and community advocates in states across America. Here is one sample, provided by a Missouri parent Dec. 8, 2010:

"Laurie,
"I think you will find it interesting that in my son's elementary school, the teachers are only allowed to teach reform curriculum Investigations in Number, Data, and Space....without any supplementation.

"When I found out that my son was sitting for 50 minutes per day during intervention time, allowed to draw, read any outside reading book, play games, or play on the computer -- I called the teacher and asked if I could send his math workbook from home that he worked in every night at home. I explained that it would be a much better use of his time during the day. I was told that I could.

"I sent the book, and quickly other parents were sending their children with the same books that were simply standard math practice with traditional algorithms. I was called to the principal's office. I was told that the book was not allowed. I was dumbfounded. My daughter, who was in that building the year before, had practiced in the same book the 2 years prior. She had the second highest score out of 400 of her peers on the math portion of the state standardized test.

"So, I clarified: 'You mean to tell me that my son can bring in a Stephen King novel, draw pictures, or play games, but you will not allow for him to better himself with math practice during math intervention?' I was told, 'That is true.' My husband and I walked out the door, and we decided to pull him out of that building that day.

"The crazy thing is that the 'games' were questions for no grade like, 'Write a chant or a song about a division problem.' Another was, 'If you met an alien who could not speak your language, draw portraits of what a multiplication problem will look like to them without using words.'

"INSANITY. Keep up the good work."
Stacy Shore, Lake of the Ozarks, Missouri

Later, Stacy Shore added a side note:

"The other very alarming element of what we have been through here as of late is what happened when one mom went in to ask for copies of the 'extension activities' (that involve the writing chants, and drawing portraits for aliens, to name just a few of the ridiculous 'activities' our kids are being forced to do). When asked if we can have copies of all activities being offered to our children, we were told that we can come in and look at them, but we cannot have copies to take outside of the school. Our kids do not bring home copies of this homework, and without a couple of us parents going in and reviewing the 'activity box,' no one would realize what our kids are being forced to do.

"Insanity. And, our children are absolutely NOT allowed to practice standard algorithms in their free time. When we realized what was going on in 'secret,' if you will, we pulled our kids and ran."


Stories like this are occurring in many states across the U.S. I’m sure that most teachers are doing their best. The problem comes from higher up. We need to change what we’re teaching the teachers to teach. More from Laurie Rogers’ previous article, why administrators don’t listen:

“It takes a strong stomach to know the truth of how bad it is, and still speak politely with administrators who keep saying the most ridiculous things. It’s tough to keep pushing, to keep trying, and to somehow avoid sinking into despair. When we talk with district decision-makers, we often find their eyes are glassy. They’ve breathed in the smoke and mirrors, and can’t seem to hear anything but the twaddle from curriculum coordinators.

“Education’s decision-makers appear to be “firmly persuaded” – many will do whatever curriculum coordinators tell them to do. So we troop over to the curriculum coordinators, and we find they’re certain, too. They don’t care what we bring to the table, even if it’s the best information, the most pertinent research and the most brilliant arguments. It’s their table – not ours – and they’ll decide (thank you very much), what happens with it. Our evidence is swept off the table onto the floor. They walk over it on their way out. Later, it’s disposed of in an environmentally friendly way.

“Sitting through certain interviews and meetings, listening to the idiocy that passes for argument (for example, “How do we know a 45% pass rate isn’t good? It all depends on where that group began”), I develop headaches, jaw aches and an upset stomach. I’ve had dark moments where I felt that nothing would ever improve, administrators would never listen…

“The obliviousness of the education establishment is impressive. The deceit and the covering up of the children’s reality are immoral, if not technically criminal. I’ve sat at my computer and blanched at the cheerful destruction of so many children’s futures.

“Math advocate Mike Miller said: “A culture that embraces purposeful perversion will be more resistant to both exposure and change.” 


“Maybe the public-education establishment is already there.”

Ideas on what you can do at home to halt the educational decline for your child in future articles. Keep posted!

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Saturday, March 19, 2016

Sing a Song of Sixpence: how parents can beat the odds of math learning with their children


Boost your child's math intelligence! How you beat the odds with your child:

               I was doing a radio interview in November 2009 when the radio host, Michael Ray Dresser (Dresser After Dark), made a parallel between phonics instruction and proper math instruction. Phonics teaches the WHY behind the reading and good math teaches the WHY behind the math. Much of the ‘reform’ math is like horrid sight-reading, where a child learns the sentence 3+4=7 by sight (or with a calculator) without learning the basic concepts underneath, that each number represents a specific amount and how those amounts regroup.

               It has come to my attention that the public educational system holds children back not only in reading, but in math as well. I strongly recommend that parents do math instruction at home long before, and during, school age. Parent involvement is absolutely necessary for our children to join the technology workforce of the future, regardless of using public, private, or home school.

               Obviously, ‘Reform’ philosophies have done for math what the Whole Language fiasco did for reading. [Note: Common Core has now ruined math exponentially more than reform math ever thought of!]

Math advocates such as Laurie Rogers of the Safer Child organization http://www.saferchild.org/ have been trying to put the WHY back into public school math, but the curriculum coordinators, college boards, textbook publishers, and government aren’t listening. Parents are the key to turning around the education fiasco for our children. Laurie Rogers is absolutely brilliant about the problems in public math instruction. To quote from her article, Rogers, Laurie. (July, 2009). "Why administrators don't listen." July 5, 2009, on Education News at http://ednews.org/articles/why-administrators-dont-listen-.html:

               “A common complaint among math advocates is that the education establishment continually rejects pertinent data and valid research on how ‘reform’ mathematics curricula are deeply, fatally flawed.”

               “It’s like watching a completely preventable traffic accident,” I’ve said. “How do they not see it? Why won't they listen to reason?”

               “Many a public schools persists with its ‘reform’ math curricula despite all contrary evidence from the district, state and nation – and despite distressing results (a scary, black hole of dropouts, remediation and failed tests).”

               “If the data and research don’t support these curricula, and the entire nation has found that a steady diet of ‘reform’ leads to math incompetence… what is the real reason for their continued use? …Infiltrate public education, teach the children to think conceptually about nothing, and then pretend to fret as the country falls to its knees. It’s the perfect crime: Infiltrate public education, teach the children to think conceptually about nothing, and then pretend to fret as the country falls to its knees."

               Everyone loves the word ‘change,’ but change is not always for the better. To quote the experts:

               “Another lesson of [Project Follow Through] is that educational innovations do not always work better than what they replace. Many might say that we do not need an experiment to prove that, but it needs to be mentioned because education has just come through a period in which the not-always-stated assumption was that any change was for the better. The result was a climate in which those responsible for the changes did not worry too much about the consequences. The PFT evaluation and other recent evaluations should temper our expectations.” (p. 179-181, Wisler, Burns, & Iwamoto, 1978).

               “The most expensive educational experiment in the world [PFT] showed that change alone will not improve education. Yet change for the sake of change is the major theme of the current educational reform effort. Improving education requires more thought than simply making changes.” (Bonnie Grossen, editor, University of Oregon).

               Giving children the foundation of the WHY behind numbers and letters in a direct manner is the best way to guarantee that they will grasp the concepts easily and progress rapidly, not only to competency but to excellence and intelligence. Wise parents who want to raise successful children will start at home before kindergarten to give their children a good foundation in mathematical concepts, patterning, and the WHY behind the math.

Laurie Rogers also wrote, “No advocate has the answer [to public education acceptance of reform math], although there are suspicions. Some of the possibilities I’ve heard include these:

·        Kickbacks from [textbook] publishers
·        Overly friendly relationships with publishers
·        College Board pressure
·        Ignorance
·        Stupidity
·        Herd mentality
·        Indoctrination
·        Ego
·        Habit
·        Personal comfort
·        Political philosophy
·        Ennui

What better gift could a parent give a child? Only parents can turn education around for their children, and they must start at home. Yes, even busy working parents. If I did it with a full-time job and 15 children, anyone can do it. Let me show you how. More to come!

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Saturday, January 30, 2016

Thursday's Child - find out why reading out-loud is so important for comprehension

Find out why reading out-loud is so important for comprehension!

               When I couldn’t homeschool anymore due to the economic needs of my family, I still taught the younger children to read phonetically before kindergarten – at a basic level. The problem is, some of my children became confused from their school’s sight-reading methods, and I didn’t notice until a few grades later, when they began to struggle.

               Of course, I always read out-loud to them when they were small, which was a good foundation, but I failed to continue after they were in school for awhile. Shame on me! However, the fix for helping them get back to their phonetic roots in 3rd, 4th, or 5th grade was to have them read out-loud to me.

               While my child read to me, I had much the same experience as Dr. Samuel Blumenfeld, mentioned in Vol. 6 of my book It's Not Rocket Surgery!:

               “I can confirm this tendency… to read [by guessing context] from my own experience as a tutor. For ten years I tutored a retarded young man and taught him to read by intensive phonics. Yet, he often made the kinds of errors [of sight-readers]. Whenever he came to a word he could not read, he substituted a word which made no sense phonetically. In other words, sounding out the word was not his first means of word attack, even though the word might have been one he had previously read correctly. Whenever he did this, I had him spell out the word, and suddenly his phonetic knowledge came to the fore, and he read the word correctly.”

               In other words, as a couple of my children struggled with sight-word training while reading out-loud to me, I reminded them of sounding-out each syllable phonetically. Their early phonics training kicked back in and overcame the school’s error. Thank goodness I had taken the time to give them that foundation, regardless of my busy schedule.

               Another article which shows Dr. Blumenfeld’s keen awareness of the problems caused by the look-say method of reading is his, How to Cure Dyslexia. To read the complete article, go to http://www.donpotter.net/PDF/How%20to%20Cure%20Dyslexia.pdf. Here are some excerpts you may find interesting:

               “Recently we received a letter from England written by an intelligent, accomplished and motivated adult who has a "reading problem." He had been taught to read by look-say and exhibits the usual symptoms of dyslexia, and he wanted to know how to cure his disability. Since there are many adults in America struggling with this same problem, we thought it would make an excellent subject for a newsletter. So here is the gentleman’s letter, with its original spelling errors, followed by our cure:

“Dear Mr. Blumenfeld,
               “I have just received the information package you sent me. I saw your advertisement in the “New Dimensions” magazine and thought it might be of interest but having little relevance to English/German education methods. Upon receiving and wading through the mass of articles etc., I read the education letter dated Jan. 1988 regarding dyxlexia. It was extreemly interesting, logical and above all explained the whole problem. It gave me important clues as to my own disabilities with reading and writing. I do’nt remember which method of reading I was taught; and to this day I still have problems with reading or should I say misreading and especially spelling. I intend to purchase your books for my children, when I get around to having some and perhaps for me to learn what I did’nt whilst at school. If you have any information or advice that could help me I should be very grateful, my problems are as follows.

READING:
-       I can read well enough, but I have to concentrate.
-       For some reason I miss words or don’nt see them.
-       I have a fear of reading aloud in public even with family or a child.
-       I miss-read or insert the odd word, but I manage to stay within the context of the message.
-       I have a little difficulty in pronouncing new words, I seem to make them fit what I think they should be or I look at a word to quickly and ad-lib, Eg. Alpha-Phonics at fist was Alphonics.

WRITING:
-       Bad handwriting although it is getting better, I don’t have patience for it. 
-       Punctuation and especially spelling are substandard, but with rereading and the use of a dictionary I can eliminate most mistakes.

-       Sometimes I totally forget how to spell a simple every-day word.
-       I have difficulties with the ‘i’ and ‘e’ relationship and the rules regarding word end changes.

               “To read this letter it might seem as if I have quite a problem but I don’t, I speak very well (posh some might say); with a little effort, concentration and the aid of a dictionary I can write quite constructive letters, although the hand-written variaty have to be rewritten a few times. Thank God for the invention of this Word Processor. But essentially reading and writing should not take so much thought, it should pass almost effortlessly from eyes to mouth and from mind to pen. I should be grateful for any assistance with this particular journey that I’m on and thank you for your help this far.

     Yours Sincerely       R. W.”

               Dr. Blumenfeld responds, “It’s unusual for a dyslexic to be able to see his own problem as clearly as this individual does. Many dyslexics are so crushed, so embarrassed by their disability, which – they fear – is the result of a defective brain, that their sole way of dealing with the problem is to hide it.”

               “First he must realize that the cure to dyslexia lies in becoming a phonetic reader. That is, he must retrain himself so that instead of looking at our written language as a series of still pictures to be interpreted by spoken language, he will see the written word as a direct, accurate transcription of the spoken word. The sight reader associates the printed word with an idea or picture, as if it were a Chinese ideograph. A sight reader may see the word “father” and say “dad,” or see the word “horse” and say “pony.” He or she does not hear the written word because the association is between the printed word and an idea rather than the printed word and the actual speech sounds the letters represent.”

               “Alphabetic writing is a sound-symbol system in which the basic association is between letters and sounds. When properly taught, the pupil is drilled in the letter sounds so that an automatic association between letters and sounds is developed. This then permits the pupil to sound out the words he or she is reading. The reason why phonetic readers read with ease and enjoyment is because once they’ve developed this automatic association between letters and sounds, the reading process becomes as effortless as speaking or listening.”

               “The reason why the English alphabetic system must be taught in a logical, systematic way is because we have only 26 letters to represent the 44 sounds in the language. This anomaly, or mismatch, is due to the fact that the Roman conquerors of Britain imposed their Latin alphabet on the local inhabitants, who, it must be admitted, did a rather ingenious job of adapting it to their own language. Indeed, they did such a good job that writers, using the system, have managed to produce some of the world's greatest literature, including the King James Version of the Bible, the plays of Shakespeare, the poems of Milton, etc. In other words, the English alphabetic system has served the writers of English very well indeed.”

               “However, when you use 26 letters to stand for 44 sounds, you will have to make some rather interesting and novel accommodations. Some of the letters will have to stand for more than one sound, and some of the sounds will have to be represented by more than one letter. For example, the “th” sound is represented by t-h; the “sh” sound is represented by s-h; and the “ch” sound is represented by c-h. The letter  a stands for at least four sounds: long ā, as in apron and April; short ă, as in cat or bat; the “ah” sound as in car and father; and the “aw” sound as in all and call. How does one know which sound to make when the letter  a appears? By having learned the appropriate sounds in their spelling families.”

               “Actually, there are about 20 vowel sounds [diphthongs] in English, but we use only six letters to represent them. That’s one of the reasons why English spelling requires a little effort to master. Another is that English pronunciation has changed over the centuries but the spellings have not. Plus, English has incorporated words from Latin, Greek, French, German, Spanish, Italian, Hebrew, Yiddish, Arabic, etc., all of which has complicated our spelling. Attempts have been made to simplify English spelling, but with very limited success. 

               “This should not disturb us, for our spelling, or orthography, is a remarkable repository of information about the history and origins of our language.”

               “Now comes the more difficult part: transforming or changing a sight reader into a phonetic reader. That can only be done by having the pupil read aloud, interrupting him whenever he makes an error, no matter how small, and by teaching him to apply his phonetic knowledge. 

               “My own experience as a tutor has taught me that look-say reading habits do not automatically disappear after a pupil has learned the alphabetic system. It requires conscious effort on the part of the pupil to overcome these bad habits. And that is why it is very important to make the pupil aware of his misreadings. 

               “Most look-say readers are not aware of the errors they make because they were taught that accuracy is not important and they were encouraged by their teachers to guess and “take risks.” Today’s teachers, in particular, do not even bother to correct sloppy reading, let alone sloppy spelling. But pupils know the difference between what is correct and what is not. And that is why they don't want to read aloud in class, for fear of appearing stupid. Accuracy may not matter to the teacher, but it does matter to the pupil who is terrified at the thought of making a fool of himself in public.”

               “And the crippling goes on. In the United States today children are taught to read by the much-touted “whole language” method, which is just another form of look-say. The Washington Post of 11/29/86 reported, “The most controversial aspect of whole language is the de-emphasis on accuracy.” The article quoted Julia Palmer, president of the American Reading Council, as saying, “Accuracy is not the name of the game.” What, then, is the name of the game? Sloppy reading! How can we help the letter writer become an accurate, confident reader?” [Your baby CAN’T read, after all!]

               “Being able to see the syllabic structure of a multisyllabic word is the key to becoming a phonetic reader. That is why it is important to break up each new multisyllabic word into its syllables. He must continue to learn to read all new words in this way—that is, see words in their phonetic structure and associate the syllables with their sounds.
   
               “Incidentally, a syllable is a unit of speech with one vowel sound. It can have none or many consonant letters attached, but it can only have one vowel component. For example, all of the following are one-syllable words, a, at, meet, -prom, prompt, thrust, scrunch. It is Two-syllable words can be as simple as a-go, and a-men or as complex in spelling as  prompt-ness,  earth-quake, or  spend-thrift. Dictionaries show how to divide multisyllabic words into their syllable components or pronunciation units.”

               “Obviously, this can be a laborious process. However, if the learner chooses reading materials that are interesting and worth reading, then the retraining can be more of a pleasure than a pain. I have found the  Reader’s Digest to be an excellent source of interesting articles on a wide variety of subjects. Chapters from books of high interest to the learner are recommended. The subject matter may indeed be so engaging that the learner will be strongly motivated to read the entire work, regardless of its difficulty.”

               “While learning to read phonetically, the student might as well be learning something else at the same time. That’s, why the choice of reading materials is important. We read for knowledge and enjoyment. Most schools, however, force children to read materials that provide neither knowledge nor enjoyment. And that is why so many children get the notion in school that reading is boring and irrelevant.”

               “The letter writer [R.W.] also wants to improve his writing. His bad handwriting can be improved with some patience and effort. First, he should learn to write the cursive letters in their proper forms and then learn how to connect them correctly and legibly. This should be done slowly, using good models. Speed will increase with proficiency. But proficiency should always come first. 

               “As the letter writer learns to read phonetically, this should also improve his spelling. Punctuation is learned by simply reading and copying good texts and understanding why the punctuation marks are where they are. The purpose of punctuation, of course, is to make the text easier to read and understand and reduce ambiguities. It provides the text with the graphic equivalent of inflection and rhythm. Quotation marks and apostrophes clarify meaning. Commas, colons, semicolons and dashes help organize thoughts on paper. 

               “In a sense, writing should be as easy as reading phonetically. However, painstaking writers will often write and rewrite until they are satisfied that they have expressed exactly the ideas they want to put forth. Rewriting, revising and editing are parts of the process of thinking. In speech, we often find the right word eluding us. In writing, we can take the time to find the right word. Good writing, in fact, is little else than refined speech or thoughtful speech.”

               “Spelling rules are writing conventions that must be learned by study and practice. The more one writes, the better one learns the rules [for] consistency, common sense, and logical practice. A writer who constantly makes spelling mistakes has simply not stopped long enough to study the words he keeps misspelling. What he should do is make a list of the words he most often misspells and [place] the correct spellings next to them.  He should refer the words back to their spelling families so that he can learn their spelling patterns. As the sight reader becomes a phonetic reader, his spelling will improve.”

               “Language is the tool of thought, and before one can make maximum use of that tool, one must master the basic mechanical skills of reading and writing.
     How long will it take for the letter writer to become a proficient phonetic reader? It all depends on how much time and effort he puts into the task and how badly he wants to get rid of his disability. Motivation is the key to success. It is the driving force that enables people to overcome insurmountable obstacles.”

               It is so important for parents to read to children, and have their children read to them, whether attending public, private, home, or preschool. It’s equally essential for parents to give their children a strong foundation in phonics, as best as their situation will allow. The Godfrey Method can help.

               Frank Smith, author of Understanding Reading, the bible of whole-language educators, was wrong! As researcher Edward Miller’s theory showed, “the two ways of looking at words — the configurational and the phonetic — were mutually exclusive, and that once a child achieved an automatic ability to look at words in a spatial-holistic fashion, it created a cognitive conflict with the phonetic method.”

               “Frank Smith, however, insisted that none of these methods were mutually exclusive. But if this were so, then why didn't those who were trained to read phonetically ever become dyslexic, and those who were taught to read ideographically did?” Frank Smith is responsible for the misconception of the century! http://www.donpotter.net/PDF/Miller-Blumenfeld_Dyslexia_Article.pdf 

               As we now know and have proven, dyslexia is induced. Continuing, “In other words, the federal government has spent and is still spending millions of dollars looking for the genetic causes of dyslexia. This line of investigation is the official line of the Interagency Committee on Learning Disabilities in its 1987 report to the Congress.”

               “What this meant was that Miller had to prove, in a manner acceptable to the scientific community, that his theory was correct. Miller believed that he could do so by means of a simple test that anyone could duplicate and verify. He had already seen how dyslexic children could read their controlled vocabulary books with great speed but were stymied when faced with simple newspaper stories. The question was, at what point did the child become a committed sight reader and develop a block against learning phonics?

               “It took about ten months of experimentation before Miller finally came up with a testing instrument that would indicate clearly whether a child was a sight reader or a phonetic reader and at what point the child's reading mode became permanent. The test would scientifically measure the child's word-identification strategies and accurately measure the severity of the child’s dyslexic condition.

               “The test was composed of two sets of words: the first set consisted of 260 sight words drawn from two Dr. Seuss books, Green Eggs and Ham and The Cat in the Hat. The second set consisted of 260 equally simple words drawn from Rudolf Flesch’s word lists in Why Johnny Can’t Read. The sight words were arranged in alphabetical order across the page. They included such multi-syllabic words as about,  another, mother, playthings,  something, yellow, while the words from Flesch’s book were all at first-grade level, one syllable and phonetically regular. In other words, for a child who knew his or her phonics neither set of words posed any problem.

               “The purpose of the test was to measure the speed at which the child read both sets of words and to count the errors, or miscues, made in reading the two sets of words.

               “The first children Miller tested were the five children of the Norman family, a family Miller had known for many years. He discovered that the two oldest boys, Deidric and Cameron, could read both sets of words with no difficulty, indicating normal, phonetic reading ability.

               “However, their brothers Travis, 11, and Jason, 7, were a different story. Travis read the sight words at 51 words per minute with no errors, but read the phonetic words at 17 words per minute with 91 errors. Jason read the sight words at a speed of 44 words per minute with no errors, but read the phonetic words at 24 words per minute with 47 errors. 

               “Obviously, both youngsters had become dyslexic. The fact that they could read the sight words at over 30 words per minute meant that their word-identification mode was automatic and, therefore, permanently fixed. Their cognitive block against phonics had been established by the way they had learned to read. Unless the blockage was undone through intensive remedial intervention, it would remain a major lifelong handicap, preventing them from pursuing careers that required accurate reading skills. 

               “The youngest child, Nickayla, 6, given a shorter test, read the sight words at 21 words per minute with 8 errors and read the phonetic words at 10 words per minute with 16 errors. She had not yet developed that degree of automaticity with the sight words that would have prevented her from becoming a phonetic reader.

               “But Nickayla was tested nine months later, and the results indicated that she had developed the needed automaticity. She could now read the sight words at 39 words per minute with 11 errors, and read the phonetic words at 21 words per minute with 50 errors. In other words, she had become educationally dyslexic in a matter of nine months. This outcome could have been prevented had she been taught intensive, systematic phonics at a time when her word-identification mode was still indeterminate.

               “The test had clearly shown its value as an indicator of a child's way of identifying words: phonetically or holistically. It also indicated the degree of dyslexia, or symbolic confusion, the child was suffering from. It could also identify those children who had not yet made a cognitive commitment to either word-identification mode and could still be saved from becoming educationally dyslexic with the proper intervention.”

               “In January 1990 Miller obtained permission to administer his test to 68 students at the Ronda-Clingman Elementary School, a rural school with an enrollment of about 600 near the town of Ronda in Wilkes County, North Carolina.

               “[The results] meant that 44% of all students in the public schools of that state would emerge at the end of their school careers educationally dyslexic, that is, functionally illiterate.”

               “What was happening at the Ronda-Clingman school was going on in every elementary school in North Carolina. Were the authorities concerned? Miller had actually gone to the state education authorities in September of 1989 and demonstrated to them his theory on the artificial induction of dyslexia. Two months later he received a letter from Betty Jean Foust, the state's Consultant for Reading Communication Skills. She wrote:

               “In my opinion, all students do not need a phonics assessment. We have never promoted reading words out of context as your assessment does. Time is precious in our schools, and we need activities which promote achievement. [Note: her context-reading is one of the most inaccurate, destructive parts of whole-language; it is educational malpractice!]

     “Secondly, I believe all students can be taught to read. Some can read better than others, but all students can learn something. We need to guard against the use of dyslexia as a term for “catch all reading problems.”

     “Thus spake the State Reading Authority.” This problem is not exclusive to North Carolina, but is nationwide.

               “As Miller has pointed out, a phonetic reader cannot become dyslexic. If what Miller has discovered is true, then the millions of dollars the federal government is spending on finding the genetic causes of dyslexia is a total waste. In addition, the billions of Chapter One dollars the U. S. Dept. of Education has spent in support of reading programs that are causing educational dyslexia are more than a waste. They are being used to commit a horrible crime against the children of this country.

               “For years, now, we have been telling the public that the dyslexia that afflicts millions of perfectly normal, healthy children is being caused by the reading-instruction methods used in our schools. Whole language, which is presently sweeping through the primary schools of America like a plague, is the latest manifestation of this insane addiction to defective teaching methods. It is sad to know that millions of innocent children will be permanently damaged by these methods, used by teachers who believe they are doing the right thing.”

               And worse yet, parents can start induced-dyslexia at home with commercially-available look-say reading methods for preschoolers. “Get them while they’re young, Eva, get them while they’re young!” (Lyrics from the Evita musical about Eva Peron of Argentina.) Parents, empower yourselves and your children with early reading the right way – The Godfrey Method!

               “Edward Miller has gone to great lengths to bring his findings to the attention of the government education and research establishment. His letters and phone calls to top officials have been to no avail. What he has found out is what we have known for a long time: they are not interested.

               “They have their own agenda, and it has nothing to do with educational excellence.

               “At this point, our only hope is to reach enough parents so that as many children as possible can be saved from the fate of functional illiteracy the public schools have in store for them. We are advising all American parents to teach their children the three R’s at home or have them taught at a trustworthy private school until at least the fourth grade. The most severe, permanent damage is done to the children in the first three grades of public school.

               “We believe that home schooling is the best educational alternative for all children. However, we realize that homeschooling is not a viable alternative for many parents. In addition, many parents cannot afford private education. But they must find some way to educate their children correctly in those first crucial three years.

               “Parents must also be made aware that permitting their pre-school children to memorize a battery of sight words will cause reading problems later on. They should teach their children to read by intensive, systematic phonics before giving them little preschool books to read. This will "immunize" the children against dyslexia.

               “And lastly, pray for those children whose parents, or teachers, do not have this knowledge — and then. . . pray for America.” ~ Dr. Samuel Blumenfeld


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